over and over again

If you don’t read the same book over and over again, then why would you get back to the same toxic relationship you swore not to?

Many of us out here have been in bad relationships. Most of us have been heartbroken and left with scars we thought would never heal. Why would we want to jeopardize the healing process by getting back with our exes?

Never settle for less.

I have always told myself, never to settle for less. This confirmation every day has helped me overcome so many irrational temptations. In most cases, we are trapped by the notion that people change. Well, I hate to be the bearer of bad news. People don’t change, only situations change. Look at it this way, you screw things up with a really nice guy or lady only to land yourself into the fire when you meet a worse person. Most of us don’t like admitting that we’ve met worse people than our previous partners but we do, literally.

So, what do you do? You start stalking your ex and presumably, they’re having a really nice life getting over you. My advice, just stop! Get over yourself. The same things that cost you the relationship will persist. You will be reading the same book over and over again knowing how it all ends. Why should you?


Respect yourself. Have some principles and most importantly, refrain from reading the same book over and over again. Drop whatever brings you down. That ex who comes back over and over again only to screw your life each time should never be an option. Damp her calls, ignore her text, and move on. You only live once, there’s no fun in doing the same thing the same way and expecting different results unless you’re insane. Are you insane?

If not, then, don’t do it. Respect yourself, your feeling, and your mental health.

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